2 years ago

Oct 3, 2008

I could write forever on my personal experience on moving to Cat 2 years ago and it would fill a short novel. 

So here goes.

Of course the night before we left we had a million things to do and still had to finish packing the 3 large suitcases we were flying with personally. We had previously sent 4 suitcases with my dad to give to people that would be flying with us whom we met up with in a plane in Houston. 
So we were up very late, trying to play jinga with our belongings that we would need in the following week, as the 4 other suitcases would be sitting on a charter in Florida for a week before coming to the island.



Started out very early with a family trip to Bush. Rog-dad had to stop for kollatchies (some kind of pastry) at 4:45am. We made it to Bush and had the nice experience of checking in large bags, thankfully we were First class so we had 20 extra pounds per bag, thank god. 
Florida terminal was small, which was a precursor to the next.  We hung out in the bar for 3+ hours, made some last minute stateside phone calls, played gin. Then we got on the SMALLEST plane I have ever been in! they had to take the last 3 seats out of the back due to all the luggage we had. It was the 4 of us and 1 ex-pat, who happened to be bringing back a trombone?!?!  We had to load the plane according to weight and size. And the co-pilot was in TRAINING!!! Oh yay!


I have told some of this story in one of my first blogs but I believe that was more about Greenwood and not the trip over here.



So I have to sit next to the door hatch and not in the seat next to window for weight balance. So I was unable to see a lot of the islands on the long 1.5 hour flight. However, I did get to experience turbulence and discovered why the ceiling was padded! Not to scare anyone off from flying direct Florida-Cat.


We land and load up in a brand new truck. First stop at the food store to get beers. Then we meet the owner of fuel station, Jaccion. Just past his station is a beach front in Old Bight, a beautiful scenery. Then we make our way to a bar. Now mind you the truck bed is overflowing with luggage and the  cabin of truck is loaded with carryons with laptops, cameras and money. And we leave it all just hanging out, windows down, walk past a few folks hanging around outside and head indoors.


All my California instincts are screaming that this is wrong, you can’t just walk away from this truck!!  Basically I am freaking out at this point, culture shock has set in fully. I cannot relax.  I am beginning to think we are at the end of the world. We are just half way to our destination by this time.


My mind is in overdrive. I can’t get a land grip on anything we are driving past. Then we come to the round-a-bout, wth is this? I get so turned around at this point that I start to panic all over again. It looks as if we are driving to no-man’s land on this small island, all I see is bush and more bush.  We have landed in another world. What did we get ourselves into?


Turns out- the best thing we could have ever done.



Sure there were many bumps along the way, a month I don’t care to recall or think about. Many Island lessons to be learned, and still learning. A great number of new lifelong friends have been made. We have learned to work on a large project while guiding operators on heavy equipment.  The art of fishing while trolling has definitely played a large part of Cdubs life and mine in the smaller format i.e. I clean the boat, But I can help out in the cockpit. I have taught Cdub how to play/ learn the rules of tennis this past year, we have not had the chance to play much in the past 2 months but we will.


I have definitely learned how to relax and to calm down and not let the little things get to me. Once removed from the city everything changes. For example, no more rush hour traffic, picking up dry cleaning, working the 8-5, cramming in as much face time with your partner before the next day of work grind, living for Friday afternoon, dealing with co-workers on daily basis, spending $ on trivial things, i.e. coffee, lunch.

There is a flip side to all of this, I DO miss a lot about living in a city. This list could go on forever, but a few pop to mind, FOOD, would kill to have crepe from crepe’s a go-go in the Dub-c, movies, live music, culture i.e. museums, close friends, convenience of many things, like contact solution, shampoo, band-aids, chocolate and being able to run out and replace a pair of flip flops that just broke.


I had a ridiculous list a few months ago, wont bore you with that but it was good and eye opening. Stuff you don’t think about, take for granted, we can’t even begin to get over here, not even from Nassau. 

Yogurt comes to mind and ice cream, not that I really cared for ice cream but once you can’t get something it drives itself into your brain until that’s all you want, I didn’t like chocolate till I wasn’t able to get any, go figure. 

And you can forget about getting a pedicure or a haircut while here. I have adjusted, i.e. get hair cut ever 3+ months, ya go short to cope with this, and toes, well get a pedi when ya can and then try to maintain or just go natural. I know scary huh?


I would not trade this for anything in the world. We are living in a beautiful remote place, have an amazing job and experience to go with it, have made incredible friends and grown in general. This was a huge leap of faith for the both of us and we have learned so much about each other and our selves.


once again an update



Once again I have failed to keep up with this blog, however in my defense we had a super busy summer.
Going with a month format to keep this short.
July
6 grandkids, 4 girls and 2 boys.  A pair was here for a whole month.  We had a ton of fun, lots of hours at the beach and in the pool. Cdub and I even got our hair done late one night.
4th of July- large pool party at Jerry and Donna’s and late night fun at Hawk’s Nest.
7 days of fishing, 5-tuna, 2-wahoo, am sure there was more but I have forgotten.
6 wonderful dinners at the Cat House, I am learning a bit from Dari – should after all I have helped.
Saw my 1st turtle on July 6th in the Creek at HN while taking a boat of Billy’s from the house to marina.
20-burgers, 36-hotdogs, 4 hours of cooking. Cdub and I went down to Jr’s new water front shack at cooked for all the kids for Bahamas’ Independence Day.
Our tennis game got better, although it did get a lot hotter, had to start playing in the evening.
Zoe found a large tar patch on the beach and of course rolled all in it. Dawn works great to remove the sticky mess.
Long Boat Cay to 3 Rock beach – 4mile walk with Donna, handfuls of sea glass. My legs hurt like hell the next day.
July 30th – fish ½ day and then Bruce and Joan arrived, 1.5 hrs late due to Regatta crowd coming over.
July 31st – fish ½ day then made way to Regatta site, much more fun to be on the water than in the crowd on land. Had a few problems with the inflatable ;) back to HN late, this was the night the side mirror on the truck got hit by another car. Scared the bejeezes out of me, lucky the window didn’t break.
August
BBQ in Devil’s Point for Regatta – tons of ribs cooked, 2 rain showers and several cocktails.
4 days of fishing, not much luck in Aug.
2 rounds of Farkle.
Another 6 amazing dinners at the Cat House. Large crew at HN.
Beach party #2, 18 people, 2 mules, 2 ez-ups, 1 grill, 12 chairs, 1 dog.
1 Meteor Shower – went out to property around midnight, saw several but not like the news was predicting, and the clouds rolled in from the ocean.
Trip to states – Chicago by way of Nassau and Miami. Gotta love the airport hustle. Spent a great 4.5 days with Stephanie and Brad.  They have an awesome apartment in a great neighborhood. Got to eat a great breakfast and then headed downtown for the Architecture Boat Tour.  Nice wooden boat, were able to ride up front away from the crowd. Took lots of pics till the camera battery died.
A stroll to Navy Pier where we became true tourist and bought throw away cameras!!! Forgot how bad they suck at taking pictures, but, we needed something as we had the whole afternoon to hang out dt.
p.s. Navy pier is not worth the long walk, ok we can say we did it, but nothing to brag about. And the beer garden is not truly a beer garden, more like cheap beers on tap that you get in cheap plastic cup and then have to sit at picnic tables under young trees.
From there we made it to Old Navy, yes Old Navy. I thought that since the weather was to be in the low 80’s and it being Chicago and all that it would not be *that* hot. Wrong! So I had to run in and buy a skirt and stuff my jeans into my purse. Then we made the walk over to the Bean and Millennium Park. Meandered through the art gardens and ended up at Park Grill for a few beers. 
Then the long walk down to Buckingham fountain where we took crappy pics with throw aways. Kinda strange after all the years of using digital to have to put a camera up to the eye oh and to wind it!  Wrigley field the next day for a photo op didn’t really care to go to the game. We did however hit several costume shops in the area for the party on Sat.  A nice night at home, cook out on back deck and a few friends stopped by throughout the night to say hi and have some drinks. Haven’t laughed that much in a long while.
Sat was a slow start, but the party later that afternoon was a smash to say the least. Laughed so hard my face hurt, took lots of funny pics, ate bad food (as in not good for you-corndogs) drank cheap beer (miller high life) and danced like crazy.
Had some really great chats with Steph, miss her like crazy. Sunday we made it out to a huge art fair back downtown, then ordered some famous Chicago style pizza.
The next 3 days we spent in West Palm with Billy. Running around getting all our shopping done for the next 3-5 months! Always a fun time, blah. Who knew you could get sick of shopping, me! 
Had to stay in Ft L the night before we came back. I will NEVER fly out of Miami again, worked out for going to Chicago, but damn it’s not worth it ever. Heavy rain storm, several car wreaks but we did make it early I think for the 1st time ever!!
1 week house/dog sitting at Jerry’s. many days of relaxing at the pool and recovering from Chicago and all the food we ate. Watched several movies and of course football.  Amazing how much stuff you haul over to spend 1 week.
1 Hurricane- Earl. We prepared for the 60+ mph winds but they didn’t really hit us, Earl was 400miles off coast of Cat. We did get some crazy big waves.  In fact I spent most of tues sitting backwards on the couch watching the water. It was nuts!!! Huge breakers, multiple rollers coming in at the same time.
September
1 trip to Nassau. Took Zoe in for year visit to Vet. Clean bill of health, very clean white teeth. Got my braces off! Spent 5 hours in chairs with my mouth being worked on. But I have super white teeth now too.  Did some shopping, new flops, a bday gift for me. A nice dinner at Luciano’s on the veranda. Got back to Cat and it was raining, good thing we had on rubber flops cause the airport was flooded.
I discovered the FREE books on Amazon for Kindle, have had it for 9 months and had no idea these were out there. Have over 30 free classics now, Sherlock Holmes being my latest new fav.
3 guests here for several days. Lots of fun to get out around the island, even tho its hurricane season and not a lot open. Got some great pics, lot of laughs, even went out to snorkel but the sea was so chummed up you couldn’t see much at all. Played several games of pool.
Made my mom’s chicken spaghetti, it was so good! Think I ate most of the leftovers;)
2 trips to the Old Bight Mission Home. Very cute kids who like to sing and dance. The company purchased the kids new school shoes and we got to do the delivery. They were so excited. Got the tour of the grounds and met all of the staff.
2 beach walks at Long Boat Cay. Found a bit of sea glass. Stayed out during a rain shower until dark, nice to relax.
1 trip up north. Discovered that when up on a hill at a resort you can see Half Moon Cay and Eluthera.  Drove down many bad roads just to see what was at the end, came upon a large footprint of a house the opens up to a gorgeous cove on the Atlantic side north, one of the most perfect spots I have seen on Cat.
1 long round of Farkle
2 or so Tropical Storms, can’t recall names. Lots of high winds and rain, reminded me of Fall. Btw the weather has cooled down at bit, you feel it more at dusk/night.
3+ rounds of no power, longest one being 1.5 hours or so. Thankfully we had lots of cloud cover so it wasn’t too hot.
Have new found love/obsession of House TV.  Add that to the list of CSI and SVU, I love marathons, thank you USA television.
3 days spent on the couch watching tv, recovering from last 2 weeks, while the rain and wind pounded the house.
Looking forward the rest of 2010! Get back to fishing in Nov.